Cow doesn’t know the use of its tail
I read recently that a dog
started to walk on its hind legs after having an accident which resulted in damage
to its front legs. I have seen dogs standing upright while
reaching for items but never seen one walking around on its hind legs.
I thought it
interesting that the dog started to walk on its hind legs after finding that
its front legs were non-functional. Could
the dog do this before but simply didn’t? Had the front legs not been broken
would that dog have learnt to walk on its hind legs? This situation reminded me of the men and
women who participate in the paralympic games, going after gold and often
achieving more than when they did when they were fully able-bodied. I wonder why many paralympians and indeed the
dog were not inclined to do the same before they lost the use of their limbs. Does it suggest that the loss of a limb or
the occurrence of misadventure raises the level of consciousness of an
individual and forces him/her to be creative and fearless? Does this explain the phenomenon where people embark
on charitable ventures for the wider good after experiencing particularly
challenging life-changing situations?
Some may argue: “if it’s not broken, why fix it?”
suggesting that if we have two legs why bother to learn to hop. When I was a child my parents often told me “When others are jumping to two legs you’re
better off jumping on one”. This
Jamaican proverb had me seriously perplexed for a number of years until I came
to realise its significance- Don’t feel that you have to be like others, there
is no there is no shame in being different.
I now realise it can also convey the importance of being resourceful -
not feeling that we must have everything in order to be successful in our
endeavours.
This story made me
realise that we are equipped with what we need to pursue our goals. Sometimes we look at our situations and we
fail to see a way; we find reasons why we can’t, instead of seeing opportunities
where we can. There is a Spanish
proverb: A
la ocasion la pintan calva - Strike when
the iron is hot. We often wait until
our backs are against the wall before we explore our latent talents in order to
find solutions.
If we maintain an
open mind and adopt an attitude of gratitude in the presence of opposition, seeing
it as a challenge to dig deeper, we will be better able to look into and beyond
the opposition and spot the opportunity.
After the storm there is calm and it’s in that still moment that our
Eureka shows up. We can’t keep running;
sometimes we have to stop, assess, plan strategy and start again. We have to be creative in our thinking,
embracing a “yes and” attitude instead of a “yes but” one. Instead of waiting for a better moment or
another solution we should explore our options or better still, be the solution. There
is no time like the present.
When we
ignore our innate ability we crave things that we believe we need to solve our
problems. We think that if only we could
get this or that all would be well and we would be happy. Not so long ago we attempted to potty-train our little girl. She became dry by day quite quickly but we did
not believe in our ability to achieve a similar outcome at night. We were referred to a clinic that specialises
in this field but there was a long wait.
While we waited we started the process of waking her up at a certain
time of the night. To our surprise, it
worked almost immediately. By the time
we got access to the treatment we no longer needed it. We had mistakenly assumed that because the
child has special needs it was beyond our capability to get her over this
hurdle, not realising that we were indeed equipped with the tools we needed. We learnt not to make unfounded assumptions –
the proof of the pudding is in the eating;
try it!
There is a Jamaican
proverb that says: when trouble tek man pickney shut fit him (similar to: any
port in a storm) - when our backs are against the wall we find ways of
coping; we find solutions, even if they are not ideal. We shouldn’t wait until we find ourselves in
a jam before we start to explore. We
shouldn’t have to lose a leg before we decide to climb a mountain. In the same way, we don’t have to wait until we
suffer misfortune before we embark on a venture that benefits others. We all possess much undiscovered, unexplored talent which we
haven’t nurtured.
It is normal to
harbour feelings of inadequacy in the face of uncertainty. Inexperience, doubt and fear often override
our confidence and make us feel incapable.
We are born with solutions which may not resemble those employed by
others but are nonetheless relevant. The
solutions we enjoy today were first introduced by people who initially had no
experience and who would have failed several times. However they did not allow their enthusiasm,
drive and ambition to give way to the fear of failure. They didn’t give up and thanks to that dogged
determination and positive attitude, we enjoy a host of products and services
today.
As business people
what new, innovative steps are you taking to keep your organisation
growing? Are you tagging along on four
legs or are you trying to balance on two?
What would happen if you break a leg, could you still thrive? What happens if two key staff members resign;
would it impact adversely on your competitiveness? What key skills have you identified in your
company that could help to reduce cost and promote job satisfaction? Very often we have the skills we need under
our noses but because we are so far removed from the ground we fail to spot them. It is fine to have a helicopter view but it
is also good to pay attention to details.
We have to respect the competence of our most valuable assets – the
people who help us deliver the products and services that keep us in the game. Involve staff in your decision-making; they
understand what customers need and could save you thousands which you may
otherwise pay to consultants which often do not have firsthand knowledge and
understanding of your marketplace.
Get to know the use
of your “tail” before you lose it.
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